Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Mi iglesia nueva / my new church

Meet Tania Marquez, whose ministry, like mine, has clearly begun during her seminary years. She is one of those sparkling souls that has probably come to teach more than to learn. At any rate, she is rumored to be in the pipeline to become minister at my new church, what is called the South Bay Campus of a large Unitarian Universalist congregation in San Diego. For me, it was love at first sight on October 4, and I've decided to show you why and introduce many of you to what was a "typical" UU worship service only in that the elements woven together to form the spiritual container were eclectic and skillfully combined, and the music fine to superb.
the young lady has professional aspirations

Less usual to the point of rarity, from my experience of more than 50 years in and around UUland, are the bilingual process, the youth of the musicians and worship leaders, and the actively involved congregation who MOVE WHEN THEY SING! Below are some of them during the other sine qua non of a UU religious experience, Coffee Hour.

Very few of you will be aware of the complexity of my relationship with Unitarian Universalism, beginning at age 12 when my father left an evangelical ministry began in boyhood and found his way to a godless and successful UU ministry. My self-appointed or god-anointed (who the hell knows?) task as a human being seems to be to afflict the comfortable and comfort the afflicted, and that played out around race and issues of racial justice during my ministry. Not a strong area for this group of primarily socially/economically privileged, primarily white folks. I left in a drunken huff twice, then with some degree of grace and humility after a period of sobriety. That was more than 10 years ago, and no one is more shocked than I about what is clearly the beginning of a new phase of my relationship with the holy, UUland, and my ministry. 

celery and peanut butter!
  And you will be hearing a great deal about a woman by the name of Mar Cardenas and her work about the consequences/effects of what I call The Fucking Fence and what she now calls The FF. If I have anything to say about it, helping to bring that obscenity down -- it is an affront to the dignity of the entire human race, including and perhaps especially those who built it and allow it to stand -- will be why God sent me to Playas de Tijuana and sent the Chula Vista UU congregation to me. But here is the ASTOUNDING news of this post: I am open to being entirely mistaken. I am open to having been sent here to learn love and forgiveness not how to have my vengeance. I am open, as I say each morning in prayer "to the pleasure only this day holds for me." Mar, who is a 6-year UU, is involved with dozens of projects and hundreds of people, but right now the primary identification is with Standing On the Side of Love and the program/retreat center she has built with her husband (above are fotos of a last-minute feast at GaryMar that followed a demonstration/program/catholic service at the FF. ).


And I really don't know why I think anyone might be interested, but I am posting below the Order of Service from that fateful Sunday a mere 25 days ago because I think it is waaay cool!

Don't know if I can keep the blog going -- life is getting kinda busy, but I also like telling the stories...
Peace out, friends. 
susan/a

South Bay Order of Service October 4, 2015

Centering Thought:

"To look back from the stony plain along the road, which led one to that place is not at all the same thing as walking on the road; the perspective, to say the least, changes only with the journey."          -- James Baldwin, Go Tell It On the Mountain

Gathering Bell / Gathering Music (Prelude)
Opening Words
Michael: A veces me siento como un niño sin madre…
Megan: Sometimes I feel like a motherless child . . .  
Michael: Que aquí encuentres, un saludo caluroso, una palabra amable,
Megan:     Here may you find a warm greeting, a kind word, a gentle touch
Michael: A veces me siento como que no tengo ningún amigo
Megan: Sometimes I feel like I have no friend . . .  
Michael: Que aquí encuentres una comunidad de apoyo, un pulso de liberación, una
            visión de esperanza.
Megan: Here may you find a community of support, a pulse of liberation,
a vision of hope
Michael: A veces me siento como que casi me he ido…
Megan: Sometimes I feel I am almost gone . . .  
Michael: Que aqui encuentres una canción para cantar, un momento de silencio, una
mano que sostener.
Megan: Here may you find a song to sing, a moment of silence, a hand to hold
Michael: Aunque estés lejos de tu hogar
Megan: Even when you are a long way from home . . . 
Michael: que estas paredes te acojan, que esta comunidad quebrante tu soledad.
Megan: may these walls give you shelter, may this community break through your
            loneliness
Michael: Y que puedas sentir el abrazo del más grande espíritu de vida
Megan: And may you feel the embrace of a larger Spirit of Life
Michael: Ven, veneremos juntos.
Megan: Come, let us worship together.

Opening Song - #36 Cantando por nuestras vidas”   Megan (soloist)

Welcome

Church Hymn

From all who dwell below the skies, let faith and hope with love arise,
Let beauty, truth and good be sung, through ev’ry land, by ev’ry
De todos bajo el gran sol, surja esperanza fe, amor
Verdad, y belleza cantando, de cada tierra, cada voz.

Church Aspiration& Chalice Lighting

May love be the spirit of this church, may the quest for truth be its sacrament, and service be its prayer. To dwell together in peace, to seek knowledge in freedom, and to help one another in fellowship. This is our.covenant with one another.
El amor es la doctrina de ésta iglesia, la búsqueda de la verdad es su sacramento, y el servicio es su oración. Habitar juntos en paz, buscar la verdad con libertad, y servir a la humanidad juntos, ésto es lo que pactamos unos con otros.

South Bay Welcome
Instrumental Music
Affirmation

We are Unitarian Universalists, A people of Open Minds, Loving Hearts and Welcoming Hands
Somos Unitarios Universalistas, Personas de mentes abiertas, Corazones amorosos, Y manos que dan la bienvenida.

Story for All Ages “One Boy Told Me” a found poem by Naomi Shihab Nye

“One Boy Told Me” is a found poem. A found poems means the poet didn’t make up any of the lines herself. Instead they are all things she overheard a boy say to her and she selected them. About her poem, she said: we all start out as poets, and some just keep up the habit into adulthood. But we can all reconnect to our own lost poets inside when we read everyday encounters like these.

Music lives inside my legs. It’s coming out when I talk.
I’m going to send my valentines To people you don’t even know.
Oatmeal cookies make my throat gallop.
Grown-ups keep their feet on the ground When they swing. I hate that.
Don’t ever say “purpose” again, Let’s throw that word out.
But tomorrow’s in BOLDFACE.
When I grow up my old names Will live in the house Where we live now. I’ll come and visit them.
Is it true that all metal was liquid first? Does that mean if we bought our car earlier they could have served it?
What if the clock said 6:92 instead of 6:30? Would you be scared?
My tongue is the car wash
My toes are dictionaries.
Do you need any words?
From now on I’ll only drink white milk
What does minus mean? I never want to minus you.
Just think—no one has ever seen inside this peanut before!
It is hard being a person.
I do and don’t love you—isn’t that happiness?

Instrumental Music
Offering

Our offering today goes to Project New Village, a non-profit organization that collaborates with organizations and individuals to promote personal, community, and communal wellness in
Southeastern San Diego, particularly among its diverse families. Project New Village connects residents to health resources, and engages youth and adults of diverse backgrounds in wellness activities. Thank-you for your support of this important work. And thank you for supporting this church. The Offering will now be gratefully received.

Offering Music -  “Pequena voz”

Meditation Song - #1012 “When I am frightened”

Meditation

Instrumental Music

Message:   “Faith at Five Thousand Feet”

Closing Song - #1017 “Building a new way”

Closing Words & Extinguish the Chalice

Paul Robeson: Llevaré mi voz dondequiera que estén aquellos quienes deseen escuchar la melodía de la libertad o las palabras que pueden inspirar esperanza y valor en la faz de la
desesperanza y el miedo.
“I shall take my voice wherever there are those who want to hear the melody of freedom or the words that might inspire hope and courage in the face of despair and fear.
Mis armas son de paz, pues es solamente por medio de la paz que se puede lograr la paz.
My weapons are peaceful, for it is only by peace that peace can be achieved.
El canto de la libertad debe de prevalecer. El canto de la libertad debe de prevalecer.” Que construyemos un nuevo camino a esta libertad.
The song of freedom must prevail. The song of freedom must prevail.”

May we build a new way to this freedom.

Closing Music (Postlude) - “Freedom jazz dance”

Thursday, October 1, 2015

I HEART LA PAZ


making do: 2day altar
November 2007 I moved to La Paz, and I have loved the place since I was there in a drunken haze with Jamie Bell in 1975. So it was with great pleasure that I accepted the latest surprise gift -- a supposed-to-be-60-hour-turned-to-74-hour jaunt from Bahia Asuncion and back (27 of those hours in the back of a pickup on Carretera Una).



Celso, mi chaufer
And you think there's no legroom on a plane! Oh well, at least I had the back to myself (if you don't count the food bag and 3 very large stuffed toys).









How often have you heard me say "In the Baja, we expect problems, and we expect help"? Celso stopped three times on our drive, altho he could only help twice, and one of those was probably, we all agreed, a scam. But he gave them money just in case we were wrong. And here, they needed only that thing that you loosen/tighten the tire bolts with. And advice/commentary from every male within sight, of course.

I stayed at a friend's b&b, and it was a joy to deepen my connections with her and her son, Arturo Enrique, who was born shortly after I got to La Paz. He does not speak (yet? remains to be seen), but he has fewer communication issues than most people I know! And while ordinarily these sad days I would not post a foto of naked children on the internet, in this case it's integral to the story. When Arturo wandered into the bathroom, he found 3-year-old David in a small washtub. But not too small for new friends, yes? So both mamas, all unphased, simply let the boys be boys and dry off on the bed in front of Jesus! Do you know what it means to me to know Christians not uptight about nudity???
Probably because I dont actually know how to make things go where I want them to with this blogging thing, think of this sentence as "on-hold" music -- it justs fills the space...
Any of you who know the book and/or The One and Only Jeff Chang will be as surprised as he will be when I send him a link to this post. I stopped dead in my tracks when this fella walked in the door of this very large restaurant in a very tiny town on the way to la paz. i asked him if he knew what his shirt said, and then told him it was the name of a famous book about hiphop music, and that I KNOW the very cool guy who wrote it. I was instantly adored by the lad. I promised to bring him the book my next drive down the Baja.

I leave you today with a teaser for two upcoming posts, titled jointly "The Lord Giveth and the Lord Taketh Away", which will relate how I have been given a new church home that I didnt even realize I was longing for, and have lost LaRoVReV to her own new future as a second honeymoon cottage...Plus, here is a fairly gorgeous moon over Campo Serena, Bahia Asuncion, Baja California Sur, Mexico. Peace out, my dears.